Ensemble HaremLit and Holidays

Whose Parents to Visit?

As we approach the holiday season, many of us are faced with the daunting task of navigating complex family dynamics and relationships. So, how does a guy with a harem do this? In Ensemble HaremLit, multiple points-of-view can make this especially challenging and fun.

In The Man from G.I.N.G.E.R., James Bread, our serial seducer, ultimately finds love in the arms of Colonel Eugenie Countess von Mittrowitz Lichnowsky. His main concern is how to explain to his mother that he is dating a Police Colonel.

In the final chapter of Star People, my outline only had the ending: Finch would be abducted by the Alder and the Nanken. Not enough for 2000 words. So, I added some holiday happenings that turned out quite well, if I do say so myself.

We see Finch with Constantia and Audrey on the pier, sliding down the bannister with Tady-Lic under the stern gaze of Lydia. But we also see Shonali taking Elizaveta and Takeko to visit the mural she painted in the cave in her village. There were several other homey scenes where the ensemble was together all the time.

It’s true, I cheated. I avoided the decisions about whose parents they would celebrate Christmas with. With more than two harem companions this can quickly grown out of proportion, mathematically speaking. Not to mention the expectations parents may have about dining on specific days.

Do these dynamics matter? I like to think so. Even though HaremLit asks us to suspend our social beliefs, they still exist. For me they are part of the dynamics within the harem, and without. Of course, this goes further than the holidays. Society, for legal, practical, financial, and feminist reasons is not comfortable with a harem of a guy with several women. Nor the reverse harem. Even the term polyamory, is struggling for acceptance.

Should we care? Yes. Love is unique in that it multiplies when it is shared. There is enough cake for everyone, because everyone makes the cake grow.

For Merchant Zayed’s Harem Adventures and The Three Tiffanys, the setting is one where a harem is acceptable and maybe even conventional. In Prospector Finch’s Harem Adventures, on the other hand, the setting is more traditional. This is why I’m finding ways to have Finch marry all the companions who want this, even if it can’t be a conventional marriage. I’ll let you know in Part 3 if I’ve succeeded. Better yet, you will let me know if I’ve succeeded.

For now, I danced around whose parents to visit by having Finch slide down a bannister 😘

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Kisses, Tiffany
Kisses,
–Tiffany

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